Learning new tricks

Last week one of my coaching clients called to say she was giving up. Ginger had her own cookie business and she had been very successful. Everyone in town was raving about her liverwurst twist and salmon chip biscuits. It was about six months into business when she called me in tears. She had just made her first major mistake. 

 One day, she was so busy she shipped a huge order of liverwurst twists to a major customer who needed only salmon chip biscuits and needed them for a major event THAT VERY DAY! 

Needless to say, Ginger lost that major client. That was the first setback she had in her business, and she told me she thought it was a sign that she shouldn't be self employed. I told her to sit, lie down, and breath.

Yes, I told her, she made a mistake, and yes, she lost a customer, but she had many success stories up to that point. What she did wrong, we discussed, was she didn't know her limits. Now that she lost that customer, she was better able to serve the others. Ginger decided to hold off on pursuing new customers for a few month to focus on the ones she had. 

The story doesn't stop there. I just heard a local magazine had called and asked her to be featured in their latest "Best of the Best" issue for her newsest creation: beef bit blondies!

Compass

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If you can't do it alone ask a friend!

People tend to let themselves get too busy. They keep adding responsibilities and tasks to their schedules, forgetting they need to have fun and relax, too. I'm pretty good at having fun and relaxing, so I think I'm a good person to help others learn to take more time for themselves.

The best thing to do when you feel like you are running around everywhere, only to find you are running in a circle chasing your tail, is to ask for help. Yep, that's right, you don't have to do everything alone. If your spouse is better at fixing things than you are, ask that person to do it for you. If you are not very good at math, perhaps you can pay someone to do the bookkeeping for your business so you can focus on what you are good at.

Take me for example. I am good at finding things that are lost, so whenever something is lost my family sends me off to look for it. However, I am not good at getting things off high shelves because I am so small, so when I need to get something that is up high, I go and get a taller member of my family to help.

I think teamwork is the best way to get anything done!

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Camps!

Dear Compass, Help! I'm trying to decide what to do with the kids for summer vacation. We take plenty of time off during the summer, but we do have some weeks that we both work, and that is when the kids attend summer camps. This year my in-laws, who live in another state, want to take them for those weeks. My husband thinks this will be a great time for the kids, but I am worried about them going all summer without socializing with a group of other children. What do you think we should do?

Camp Mom

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Dear Camp Mom,

I don't think either of you is wrong. I enjoy spending time with people my own size as well, but sometimes it is great to be loved and taken care of by someone special. How many weeks are we talking about? Perhaps you can split them between the trips to your in-laws, and a one week camp here or there. Another options would be to make sure you schedule play dates with your kids and some of their friends before or after the trip.

How often are your kids able to see their grandparents? This could be made into an exciting and special time to spend with them. My family went to Europe last year, and they left me with some special friends while they were away. I had so much fun and I was able to explore a whole new place! Your kids might feel the same way. 

Compass

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What to do, what to do...

Being a coach, I'm often asked how I decided what project I should do first on a busy day. Here's how I start my day: I wake up early and make sure my family is also awake early. Without me they wouldn't get up in time, so this is one of the most important things that I do. Next I go for a brisk walk outside, come back in, take a drink of water, and take a nap for an hour or two. Are you noticing the pattern? I start my day with the most important thing I have to do-- I make sure my family is awake on time-- then I move on to the next important thing on my list, I go outside and take my walk. 

When you have a lot in your water bowl and you don't know where to begin, the best thing to do is start off on the thing that needs to get done the most that day, or that morning. It doesn't matter if it is the longest project you have to do, or the shortest, the hardest or the easiest, you should start your day with the most important. When that is complete you move on to the next important task for that day. That way, by the end of your day, if there is something you didn't finish it is ok. 

For example, my day ends with dinner, then sitting around the house with my, before curling up and going to sleep. Now I am all rested up to start the day again by waking up my family early.

GET OUT!!!

I like to run. I like any game where there is a ball I can chase around. Now that the snow is finally melted my family and I are spending more time outside, and I am able to chase my ball all around the yard. I am pretty active all year round, but I know many people get sort of lazy during the winter time. Well, it’s time to get off the couch and back on your feet! The grass is green, the sun is warm, and there is no reason to sit around inside anymore.

Ok. I know. I’m known to get all excited about going outside only to lie down on the grass with my tummy sticking straight up, but I want to encourage you to get active. Take a walk with your family. The trails are beginning to dry up near my home, so there is no excuse not to get out in the wilderness. Choose your favorite ball and play your favorite game with it. It doesn’t matter to me what you play, as long as you are running around.

All this hiking and running keeps me really healthy, but it also makes me thirsty. Remember to bring a water bottle with you wherever you go, and remember to bring water for other members of your family that drink from a bowl instead of a bottle.

Compass
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